Posted by: Life Skills
Sankar
Source: behappy.org.in
Parents sacrifice their lives for children and transferring
their assets too. Wife and husband share so many things. Children feel a lot
about their parents. Grand parents teach good things.
Today’s youth feels
that parents are their property, we can use their lives till the end. The
family is not a place for discussing one’s rights and responsibilities; it is a
place for sharing responsibilities and enjoying the rights.
Some of the Parent’s
Feelings
• Children are adamant
• Disturbing with bad habits
• Wasting time with TV/Internet/Cell/games/friends
• Demanding money without understanding
• Neglecting studies
• Not bothering about the future
• Involves in love affairs and disturbing family
• Do not help in family matters
Children Feelings
• Always control, No
freedom
• Daily tell
same suggestions
• Not giving
enough money
• Talk only
about marks/morals/responsibilities
• Ask us to away
from the bad habits, but they can’t
• No freedom,
even our marriage
• Always feel
tension about our future and put us in tension
Read this story
Once upon a time there was a famous poet Bharavi. His poems
attracted the people very much and they praised him a lot. Whenever, somebody
praised his son, father commented, Bharavi, a child in poetry, need not to
praise so much.
Bharavi hurt; it happened again and again. Bharavi felt
that,” father was envious about my talent”, so, to get fame father must be
killed.
Bharavi prepared a plan in the midnight to murder his
father. He had selected the kitchen, where the father took food in the morning
and climbed to arrack with a big stone. He would like to throw the stone on his
father’s head.
Father
came for food
Ready, one… two… mother started a conversation
with the father, Bharavi listening.
Mother : Bharavi is unhappy’
Father : What happened! He is a good poet, no
problem with Money, what happened,
asked out of anxiety.
Mother : You only the cause.
Father : me!?!
Mother : Yes, you were always passing
negative comments, while
some body praising our son
Father : Laughed
loudly,’ Don’t be silly’. Whenever, I used such
words,
the people will say, “no, no, Bharavi was a great
poet.” If
we also
praise, people laugh at us.
Mother : I didn’t think like that….
A
big sound….father afraid of and started to run, but somebody pulling his leg look down, Bharavi caught his leg; there was a big stone adjacent.
Father : What all this!
Bharavi : Father you were lucky, if mother didn’t start conversation, you might have
killed.
Father : what!?!
Bharavi : Yes father, I misunderstood you, give me a punishment.
Think,
whether you understand your parents properly!
Shall give
good education Shall Read well
Shall
provide food, clothing, shelter Shall look parents in old age
Shall look
after health Shall follow
Parent’s suggestions
Shall
maintain a peaceful home Shall not
create the problem environment Shall teach
good habits Shall learn good
habits
Shall share
love & affection Shall share love
and affection
Shall give
money Shall not waste
money
Wife-Husband Quarrels
Disputes are common in families. If
there is no adjustment between wife and husband, it becomes a battleground.
Petty things are cause for many quarrels.
Some of the feelings
Wife
feelings Husband
feelings
Dominating Dominating
No value for
my word No value for
my word
Admonishing
my parents Admonishing
my parents
No freedom
in money matters Waste money
Growing
distance after having children Strained
with duty
Do not ask
while purchasing something Always not
possible
No role for
me in children matters Just feeling
Other causes for quarrels
Bad habits
Illegal contacts
Health problems
Financial matters
Sex problems
Family is just like a
flower, if parts separated, lose its Life and beauty
